Who is a true friend??
A friend in need is a friend indeed - most commenly used phrase while defining a friend. But does it really stand true if it does then I am sad because I do not have any friend in my life..
The following came as a forward mail to me from someone:
" Once I was walking on a bridge to go to the otherside and reach my friend. Suddenly realised the bridge was going to fall. I yelled, screamed, called out my friend, waved at him but he never retured or came for my help and also did not respond. I reached otherside of bridge somwhow and to my surprise I saw my friend holding to rope; saving the bridge from falling. Moral of the story - Even if your friend does not respond to your pain and problems that you express always remember he is silently holding you from falling."
I do not realy believe in it anymore.
Friends are people who are selfless. Friends are for eachothers help and support. Friends can leave all its priorities just to make you smile or listen to you. A Friend is one who will stand next to you proudly even if you are the most disrespected, ugly person. A true friend is one who knows all your flaws but yet accepts you as you are. A friend is one for whom nothing is comparable in the world. A friend is one who stands at a position which is just after our god and parents. A friend is one who makes you and also breaks you like destiny.
This is what I understand by true friend. I have also been so and tried to be with my friends always.
But when it comes to me why do i get friends for whom it doesnt matter what i go through. When I go to so called mmy best fridn to share my problem it bothers him..he dsnt like it feels im always crying...They c us upset yet will never try to find whats wrong, why you are like this, why are you what you are today, were is always like this...they will never try to find all this but just say that I m sad....I really dont know what the problem with people...
My feelings become fake it i havenr behaved the way anyone would otherwise behave...I m true and honest to ask and tell things but I m not right if i do so.... When I do not behave, say what they want their ego is hurt or probably they have not experienced so much of honesty that they cant bare it they finally have one option i.e. I am fake my emotions are fake I am using them and god knows what....
Its easy to create opinion than finding what the person is....and why he or she is what the present is...........
I feel i am an alien.................. coz im too honest, too true to this world that i always land up giving explations to the truth i said.............So is the problem with me or with the listener.......?
No Words..............
13 years ago
2 comments:
We all have expectations that we have from one and many, near or far so do others. We fall short of d'em, and so do others, we are completely human. The definition of a friend changes with time, and so do their perseverance levels across ages. In today's world no one walks home without an added problem, and no one appreciates a cry baby, no matter how hard the times maybe, we do not have any right to spoil their time, whilst we do have the right to extract a share of happiness in all that they do. And a true friend will understand without words being exchanged. True friendship does not mean someone who sticks by you when you persist with your problem, but one who gives you the strength and confidence that you are strong enough to overcome dem, and let u be on your own to discover yourself. All that hurts is loneliness, we have fallen victims to our erstwhile ways. Believe in the reality of life, one is the blood relations which we have no control over, then its our friends who we make and we define them as per us. As u said in your last comment every1 is selfish, so are we since we need their company to give us that support and satisfaction in life.
The problem is right here..in this moment..bt not with any1..tk cr
great..that was a quick response from your end..thnx for it..but i do have certain reasons to write all this...anyways..thnx for ur comment but may i know who are you?
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